Not Good, Not Bad

When we met first, he was very confident, but shared less about whats there in his mind. Though  his body language, and gestures towards her speaks in volume, it was difficult to jump to any conclusion. My recovery from those past days, it is quite right to opine that something was cooking but never imagine she could turn out to be the Girl Who Kicked the Hornet's Nest.

A relationship is not about use and throw, its about a commitment for the rest of the life from the very first day of GO. So before falling in love to someone, or commit something to someone, make sure you are completely in to your decision. Half baked decision will not only spoil someone's life but your life too. Playing games with someone's emotion and sentiment will make you repent a lot in your later life, may haunt you most of the time, scaring you even in your happier times.

What if you want to get out of a relationship just because both of you are not in a compatible mode? It is not true to the claim that "we amicably parted away". There always persist something undeclared. 99% of a relationship ends because of ego problem, without admitting to it. Opportunism never works in a long lasting relationship.

For every break up, there comes two explanations: one which you will explain when ask WHY, and the other which will remain hidden only with you. Why should you go in length explaining when you are not wrong for anything, and just because the relationship broke up and you are at the receiving end! 

Sometimes its not good to be good, and sometimes its not bad to be bad. Don't speak bad about her/him after your relationship broke up. It takes time, but it pays. Don't wait for him/her making you laugh, go ahead and make him/her laugh first, definitely you will see a smile in your face at that moment.
 

Passions make us commit faults...

Temptation sometimes emulate us and make forget that we have conscience. It leads us to land somewhere we never used to do in normal,...mostly resulted in regretting at the end. Whenever we see some attractive things all of a sudden, your mind curves towards grabbing it. Its nature, I must admit. But all the time, you will not be in the position to control [completely] your mind and listening your conscience.
Not all dreams are destine to coming true, however the argument here is not about giving up dreaming. Dreams are all about setting your goal in life. The more goals we projected, the more we strike and achieve.

Happy Anniversary.

Make the most of the day by wishing and celebrating together on your anniversary day. Forget about the past, forget about the fight...just bury the hatchet, its time to renew, replenish and rejuvenate your old ties ...celebrate to the fullest...HAPPY ANNIVERSARY.
There will always remain a portion in your heart into which no one can fill up. It will remain same in both side. Your true happiness can be found in true love only,...keep aside yesterday, feel about the moment,...give love, your coming days are bright.
Cornering yourself to a single point [where you strongly disagree, and opined against it] will not make you feel happy of being in a relationship. Remember the words of T.K.: Bondage maybe, discipline never.

Just hope, one more time

Patching up an already bizarre relationship needs honesty with determination. Forget about who you are, what are your achievements, what you have done,...just remember, your goal is to woo back your love. For a moment, shed off your EGO,...love just don't need your bank balance, credit cards, cars, properties or honours.

If you value the relationship, just don't hesitate to say sorry, even if the mistake was not from your side. The person is your love, don't feel inferior for the "sorry" you had offered; you can take back your apology if you were not wrong, only after the relationship is back to normal. Just remember the smile, petty petty things that you shared together in happier times...just forget the dirty words uttered while fighting, or the arrogant attitude shown in bad times.

Well, you have done a good job, got recognition and appreciation. You have a bright future now too. But life is not all about politics my dear. Just remember who help you in reaching up to this position!
Patch up, and chill out together in this deadly summer to a nice and cool place. Your simple one word 'SORRY' will pay you back thousands of cosy moments. Its late but not too late. Better late than never.

Give respect, Take respect

You can't earn "respect" with the money and qualification you have, alone. You may belong to a so-called high society, or your family and relatives may be well known to the society. You may be speaking multiple languages, must be having multiple degrees. But if you don't know how to respect others, than all your knowledge and degree is of no use.
You must be happy to introduce someone who belongs to a higher class or from a well known family. In that same zeal you must be ready to welcome someone who has nothing other than himself/herself. You just need a little more hard work and luck to stride a gold in life rather than friendship with so call high society people. We are living under the same sun, its by luck that someone got fame and recognition with less hard work. So you should never underestimate someone.

At the receiving end

Both are my friends, and its now very difficult to decide to whom I should favour. Both of them are regularly keeping in touch through think and thin, and are well exposed to all of my friend circles. Confused!!!

Well, the story goes like this, One of my dear friend was supposed to get tie the knot with his childhood love eight years back from now. Unfortunately, that relations falls out due to misunderstanding between the two families. And thus the marriage was canceled for forever. The two love were not in talking terms and thus separated till seven years. In between, this dear friend found a new love and was introduced to me. Being a good friend I become closer and the bonding has developed at a certain. Everything were going smoothly till the first departed love surfaced all of a sudden. Being first love my friend forgive and cleared the misunderstanding. Now the problem is who is going to sacrifice for whom?

In a relationship, the most important thing to maintain is mutual trust and understanding. If once the faith is lost in your love, it will be very difficult to get it back. Sometimes temptation leads to act unfaithful things, I agree, but don't let temptation overcome you. Be faithful to your love, admit it when found yourself at the receiving end.

Thank you for caring me my dear friend.

"...My phone is not working, my pocket is empty. What the hell is happening? Late in the evening when I returned back, found my computer not working. Someone whom I trusted most had removed and taken away the Hard Disk and RAM without my knowledge. I can't blame him for his misconduct, because I know at whose insistence he was doing. Circumstances compelled every body to act like not like. I understand. My boss ring me up, and apprise me, some of my close associates whom doesn't like to disclose their names, visited him and talked rubbish about me. My boss said, don't worry, I don't believe them. Huhhh...I can't find a single stick of cigarette, even bottles are empty. Though I had promise not to drink to my love, at this moment I can go wild for a single drop. If you were around my dear, less will be the burden, mental havoc!!! Where are you?..."

Time is over, I can't sit at a corner, sulking... Without crossing the worst situations, no one can touch the best corners of life...Now, I am happy with old and new friends around, sharing everything, forgetting about the past... Vodka with limca, rum, whisky... choice is mine, with glasses full. Now I realise, good friend is someone who can take their own decision themself, and very importantly not depending upon their near and dear on taking decision what to do and what not to do for their friends. Thank you my dear friend for caring me. I wish, I can share all these happinese with my love!!!

The power of love

After almost three years of no-where-about, suddenly come into contact with her. She has undergone many changes, like, now knows how to make her face beauty, wooing others with single liners, maturity in decision making...list is a little bit long my dear. One thing which I observe, that seems remain stagnant, is her temper... Her Temper!!! Oh My God!

Somehow I came to know about her break-up with her long time lover, (source...she as well as her colleagues). Feel good, that guy wasn't the right one for her.

I strongly opine, why should we bind ourself to a so called "love relationship" when the relationship wasn't meant for? Why should we do stupid things and compromise when the relationship is not working?

If you are not happy with the present relationship, go to the root and find out. I will be very happy spending a moment happily with my love than spending twenty years with someone whom I don't love or am forced to act like being in love. Forget about rich or poor, popular or ill-famed, educated or layman...when you once fall in love, your life will be always on cloud number 9.

The picture of life starts when you meet your love. Quite often, the past doesn't matter in between true love... Let me conclude, now she seems very happy, laughing when alone, and eagerly waiting for the next moment, expecting sweet messages from the murmuring air...

I must admit, I am happy, very very happy, to see you happy.