The onset and waning of love!

What is the use of that relationship which doesn't have a mutual respect in between... feel like loneliness being together! Most of the time, you are always hurt by the one you love most...you expect something, but didn't not get a glimpse of what you have expected. Apparently, you are always been loved by the one you don't love! Its not about being messed up alone!
At a maximum, most try to choose the one who loves them, but still their heart belongs to the one who hurt them. And very often they make comparisons...very sad, very very sad...hampering the growth of their relationship,...lost the beauty of love which was blossoming hideously! Got struck...!
Love is something which often brings smiles and happiness at your face without being tried. Gives you the courage to move ahead, ignoring the hard and tough, and make the things going. In short, love is the best medicine for any kind of pain and hardship. But when the relationship stops working, there will be no medicine to soothe the pain given by your love.
The beauty of a relationship and their future depends upon the mutual respect they have for each other. Ego is a main factor, so try to shed off...and if you think your ego has hurt your love, just tender your apology. Even if you are ready to apologies for doing nothing wrong, it doesn't mean that you are wrong and is subdued and your love is right...Feel the good moments...
You must realize the hidden fact that it only means you value the relationship much more than your ego. And if you think there is no future in it, give a call in your heart and quit it.

"Laadli Scheme" a must for every state

The 'Laadli Scheme' launched by Delhi Government in association with the State Bank of India (SBI) is one such good initiative that every state must follow for the future of "girl child" in the country.
Female foeticide is such a heinous crime which is still committing in some parts of the country. The initiative of the Delhi Government will surely help in curbing female foeticide on one side and will help in enhancing the social status of them on other side.

Though the accumulated amount of approximately Rs.1 lakh which the girl will get on attaining the age of 18 years and at least passing out 10th standard may be low, it will surely help in protecting them from discrimination and deprivation at certain level. Only giving them good education will help in bringing a balance society.

With the scheme in great success, now parents started believing in sending their children back to government schools. With "Sarva Shiksha Abhiyan", another step to fight our biggest challenge "illiteracy", its right time for the rest of the states and union territories to implement "Laadli Scheme" in their respective states.

We are still looking forward to the promise made by SSA to provide useful and relevant elementary education for all children in the 6 to 14 age group by 2010 in India.

Bad taste

Time heals everything,... your foe may become your friend, your lost reputation may get regain, your debt may get clear, your lost love may come back to your life...just keep fighting, pace your step forward, the world is not going to end now.
Everybody is destined and has to face a worst time in their life, its a part of the journey, nobody can spare. Loosing heart, and admitting failure and stop moving ahead wont bring a good taste in life. Don't just let dare to go the way your life takes you.
A failure has many options to explain why they got failed..."they cheated me...I don't like...Have another offer...am exploited...am being used...no future..."
Why do you keep on blaming to others? Unnecessarily you are making a long list to blame. Castigate thousand times, but they won't stop moving; your imputation won't make their world end, instead it will strengthen their position.
Don't expect someone to justify on you on the same...don't ever wait. Because the mistake is in you, not the other. Before accusing others, justify your stand and credibility; and if you think you really have the potential then go ahead, you have unlimited limit; but don't blame on others for your failure. Prove that you deserve success then only the rest will believe in your claim[s].
Success doesn't come easily. After crossing thousands of hurdles and obstacles, you will get a little bit of success. Before you get success, you will come across many leg pullers, thousands will blame on you, the world might seem standing against you. Don't loose heart, keep fighting. Just take your life the way you wish to go, success will follow you...remember hard work always pays.

Finally, the recognition is coming

Congratulation M.C. Marykom on getting nominated for the Rajiv Gandhi Khel Ratna Award. You really deserve some outstanding recognition[s] for the achievements and contribution you have made to the Indian Boxing.
Though the country's highest sporting award comes late in acknowledging your talent, I hope you wont loose heart. You are now an icon for many Manipuri young boxers and also for the young boxers of the country. Your achievement of fourth world boxing championship is itself a milestone, coming generation will love to cherish it forever.
You have a long way to go. Hope you will bring more world boxing championship title back home and inspire our youths. All the Manipuris need you.
All the best to you, hope this time you get the Rajiv Gandhi Khel Ratna Award, just because you deserve it.

Sleeping with the enemy!

I had never prepared to face the attack from someone very close to me,...even I didn't expect that someone very close will take advantage of me. Every now and then, this dirty thing is infiltrating into my mind. Now whenever I recollect our conversations, all sound different. Seems frustrated, didn't even want to respond to anybody properly...huh!
If you are ambitious, successful or wanna be successful, or want to maintain your reputation; be always prepared to face the sudden attack from your secret competitor/admirer. Remember that someone very close to you can only do much harm [unexpected lost] than your open secret enemy.
Here arise one question, how can I doubt those people who are here taking care of me all day and night? How can I doubt my own blood?
Well, to find out your assailant, you don't need to doubt each and every person you accompany. A friend becomes foe only after the intrusion of a third member. That may be of either sex. You must have that much sensitivity in your life if you want everything running smooth.

Just hope, one more time

Patching up an already bizarre relationship needs honesty with determination. Forget about who you are, what are your achievements, what you have done,...just remember, your goal is to woo back your love. For a moment, shed off your EGO,...love just don't need your bank balance, credit cards, cars, properties or honours.

If you value the relationship, just don't hesitate to say sorry, even if the mistake was not from your side. The person is your love, don't feel inferior for the "sorry" you had offered; you can take back your apology if you were not wrong, only after the relationship is back to normal. Just remember the smile, petty petty things that you shared together in happier times...just forget the dirty words uttered while fighting, or the arrogant attitude shown in bad times.

Well, you have done a good job, got recognition and appreciation. You have a bright future now too. But life is not all about politics my dear. Just remember who help you in reaching up to this position!
Patch up, and chill out together in this deadly summer to a nice and cool place. Your simple one word 'SORRY' will pay you back thousands of cosy moments. Its late but not too late. Better late than never.

...that stream is stagnant now...

Its late, but still trying to figure out why am feeling restlessness! Tried to close my eyes in this big, cool and silent room. Something missing? right? Must be feeling uneasiness without a call or a talk...but I can neither confess nor admit at all. I am yet to recover from the big fat liar...

Someone has drawn a line, not to cross, or never to try.

I never used to be like this...ok now I admit. Loosing temper and shouting at every time...do I...really???
A relationship must bring out the best in between the two love, but in my case it seems that I just bring the worst in her. And I can't handle it anymore...So all I can say is that it will be better if we part our way here. This is the best solution I can give now. I must be crowding your space that's why every time you keep on shouting at me and I don't like people shouting at me...chapter closed!!!

From this closed chapter begins the not-yet-titled...

Time heals everything. Its been long that I haven't take a break from my work. Hectic schedules and hurried life; more cigarettes, less food; boring attire,...yaar, life should be rocking. What the hell is this?
Humming a love song, with great fantasy...late at this hour I am trying to catch some sleep, so that at least I can have a glimpse of you at my dream. I wish, I could welcome you with open arms...

Call me stupid, idiot...tolamu,
but the truth is I can't show you that much of my sensibility as you are expecting from me. And remember my dear, I hate speaking half-baked truth, so don't force me to answer the unanswered question[s].

Congratulation Suranjoy...a promising Boxer from Manipur

"...I don't think this gold is a big deal. People are making it look big because it has come after 15 years. I have bigger goals."
- Suranjoy Singh, Asian Championship, Gold Medal Winner, 2009.

I don't have detail information about you. I don't have any other source too to gather your bio data. But now you are the hero, our hero. Congratulation on your achievement, you have done a great job.
Asian Boxing Championship is a big event, but for the last 15 years, none of the participants make it big. So there were no hype of this championship around. From now onwards, people will watch it with great expectation. Your Gold Medal comes in right time. Others Manipuri, Thokchom Nanao Singh has also done a great job, but he missed the Gold Medal. Better luck next time.

Manipuris are good at sports, this has been proving continuously year after years by the players from this state; either in national level or at International Level. It is high time for the State and Central Government to stop ignoring these players. They are continuously bringing laurels for them, for us; and will also bring more such in the coming future.

We are looking forward to you Suranjoy...you must won more such gold medals...why not one in Olympic. Nanao, from you too,...keep going.

Price of honesty...

At first sight, you fall in love; you started talking through mobile phones; start exchanging thoughts through messages, mails; and now full introduction about yourself and yours new found love including family members and relatives. You took extra enthusiasm at the beginning of the relationship, may be you are attracted to the beauty, or to the intelligence or may be to the catching words or may be some other reasons.

Great, and congratulation on winning someone's heart. Its not easy to win someone's heart. You started giving hopes. The hope you have given is very powerful, the intensity of the relationship in building will totally depends on that hope. You must be happy now, not because someone is ready to die for you, but for really successful in establishing a new relationship up to that level. Again I must say you are great.

Now, its time to check out whether you are truly in love or not. After, coming to know about the family and relatives of your new found love, there is no point in changing your behaviour and attitude towards your love. So what if your love is not from a well to do family or their relatives are not in that league! Or why more attention if your love belongs to a well to do family!

If you are looking for a love which has a great backing from their family wealth and reputation than go for an arrange relationship. Please don't mind, evaluate yourself once...if you belong to this category, you are not in true love and do not deserve to be in love.

Important point which we have to count here is the honesty your love has. Instead of cheating, if your love has the guts to tell you the truth at the very beginning of your relationship, than its far better to be caught red handed with your lies later on. The beauty of a relationship lies in the way how you share your thoughts/feelings with each other. Rich or poor, fame or wealth...stand by your love. You can earn everything, but you can't buy a true and honest love. Know the price of honesty.

Give respect, Take respect

You can't earn "respect" with the money and qualification you have, alone. You may belong to a so-called high society, or your family and relatives may be well known to the society. You may be speaking multiple languages, must be having multiple degrees. But if you don't know how to respect others, than all your knowledge and degree is of no use.
You must be happy to introduce someone who belongs to a higher class or from a well known family. In that same zeal you must be ready to welcome someone who has nothing other than himself/herself. You just need a little more hard work and luck to stride a gold in life rather than friendship with so call high society people. We are living under the same sun, its by luck that someone got fame and recognition with less hard work. So you should never underestimate someone.