Saturday, November 7, 2009

Perfect Match [Male - Female] birthday

  1. Sunday pairs Monday: Not good
  2. Sunday pairs Tuesday: Good combination, wishes come true
  3. Sunday pairs Saturday: Possibility of being wealthiest
  4. Monday pairs Tuesday: Not good at the beginning, very good at later stage
  5. Monday pairs Thursday: Good pair
  6. Monday pairs Friday: Quarrelsome, rich at later stage
  7. Monday pairs Saturday: Wealthy, Live Long
  8. Monday pairs Wednesday: Good at later stage
  9. Tuesday pairs Wednesday: Quarrelsome
  10. Tuesday pairs Tuesday: Very bad option
  11. Tuesday pairs Saturday: Good
  12.  Tuesday pairs Friday: Chances of becoming poor
  13. Wednesday pairs Saturday: Not good
  14. Thursday pairs Saturday: Become rich soon
  15. Thursday pairs Tuesday: Very complementary
  16. Friday pairs Saturday: Bad

[input from yotish]

Tuesday, October 13, 2009

Merit and demerit of "Yek masel Lounaba"

I sincerely tried very hard to bring out a concrete answer on this topic. But we cant conclude with a common decision. Scientifically there are many points which favour "NOT AN ISSUE" but for a general consensus, it is still "AN ISSUE".
Sorry, I cant publish the contributors comment/opinion over here.

Tuesday, September 29, 2009

Passions make us commit faults...

Temptation sometimes emulate us and make forget that we have conscience. It leads us to land somewhere we never used to do in normal,...mostly resulted in regretting at the end. Whenever we see some attractive things all of a sudden, your mind curves towards grabbing it. Its nature, I must admit. But all the time, you will not be in the position to control [completely] your mind and listening your conscience.
Not all dreams are destine to coming true, however the argument here is not about giving up dreaming. Dreams are all about setting your goal in life. The more goals we projected, the more we strike and achieve.

Sunday, September 27, 2009

Happy Anniversary.

Make the most of the day by wishing and celebrating together on your anniversary day. Forget about the past, forget about the fight...just bury the hatchet, its time to renew, replenish and rejuvenate your old ties ...celebrate to the fullest...HAPPY ANNIVERSARY.
There will always remain a portion in your heart into which no one can fill up. It will remain same in both side. Your true happiness can be found in true love only,...keep aside yesterday, feel about the moment,...give love, your coming days are bright.
Cornering yourself to a single point [where you strongly disagree, and opined against it] will not make you feel happy of being in a relationship. Remember the words of T.K.: Bondage maybe, discipline never.

Wednesday, September 2, 2009

Yek Salai of Manipur

1. MANGANG YEK SALAI-SAGEI:

AHEIBAM
ACHURAM
AHANTHEM
AKHENGBAM
AKHOM
ATOM
AYEKPAM
CHAKAMAYUM

CHANAMBAM
CHANINGHANBAM
CHANINGSENBAM
CHANNABAM
CHANJHANBAM
CHARAIMAYUM
CHAROIBAM [khuman]
CHEROM
CHINGKHAM
CHIROM
CHONGJAMBAM
CHONJHONBAM
CHONGTHAM
CHORIBAM
HAKWANTHEM
HAODEIBAM
HAOKHOM
HAYINGTHEM
HEIBITHABAM
HEIRANGKHONGJAM
HEIRANGLEISANGBAM
HEIRANGTHOKCHAM
HEIROM [angom]
HEISNAM
HEMNAM [angom]
HICHAM
HIRINGTHEM
HIROM
HODAM
HODAMNGATHAM
HUIDROM
HUIREM [angom]
HUIRONGBAM [luwang]
HUIYONGBAM
HOUBIYAM
IKHOISANGBAM
IKWANTHEM
IPUMSANGBAM
IPUSANGBAM [luwang]
IRENGBAM
IROM
IROMSINAM
IRUMBAM
IRUNGBAM
ISENBAM
KAISAM
KAMBAM
KANGABAM
KANGASANGBAM
KANGHUJAM
KANGSENBAM
KAYENPAIBAM
KEISHAM [angom] [salangleisangthem]
KEITHELLAKPAM [moirang]
KHAMBAM [khabanganba]
KHAMNAM [luwang]
KHOIDONGBAM
KHOIROM
KHOISHNAM [angom] [salangleisangthem]
KHUMANCHAIPAM
KHUMANKEIRAKPAM
KHUMANLAMBAM
KHONGNAM
KHAMLANGSANGBAM
KHANAM
KHANGJAPAM
KHUNJAM [luwang]
KHUNJHAM
KHURAILATPAM
KHURIRENBAM [salngleisangthem]
KHUNJAHUNBAM
KHUNDOM
KHUNDRAKPAM
KHURIYENBAM
KHWAIRAKPAM [moirang]
KONGABAM
KONGBAJAM [luwang]
KONGACHAM
KONGPAM [angom]
KONSAM [khuman] [angom] [moirang][salangleisangthem]
KONUHAOBAM
LAICHANBAM
LAIKANGBAM luwang]
LAISANGBAM [angom]
LAITAM
LAITONJAM
LAITONJAM [angom]
LANGTEN
LANGTEMAN [luwang]
LANGPOKLAKPAM
LANTHAM [khuman]
LEICHOIBAM
LEICHONBAM
LEIMALEIRAKPAM
LEIMAPOKPAM
LEIMARAKPAM
LEIMARAM
LEIMASANGBAM
LEISONGBAM
LEIUSHUNGBAM
LIUNUNGBAM
LEISANGBAM
LEIYUNGSHUNGBAM
LEMBAM
LOITAM [salangleisangthem]
LOITONGBAM
LOITONGBAM
LOUKRAKPAM
LOURANGBAM
LOUREMBAM
LOURIYAM
LOUSAMBAM
LOURUNGBAM
LUKRAM
MAIRENBAM
MAYANGLAMBAM
MOICHAM
MORAM [luweang]
MOIBUNGLOKPAM
MOIRANGNINGTHOUMAYUM
MUTUM
NAHAKPAM [luwang]
NAKAMBAM
NAMEIRAKPAM
NAMOIJAM [moirang]
NAMOIRAKPAM
NANDEIBAM [moirang] [khabanganba]
NAODAM
NAOKONSANGBAM
NAOREM
NAOROIBAM [luwang]
NATHAM
NAYANGLAMBAMUTUM
NGANGAM
NGANGOM [luwang] [moirang]
NGANGKHARUNGBAM
NGANGOMYUMDANGBAM
NGARIYANBAM
NGATHEM [salangleisangthem]
NINGTHOUJAM
NONGMAIJAM
NONGTHOMBAM [luwang] [angom]
NONGMEIKAPAM
NOULAM
NUMITLEISANGBAM
PAONAM [angom]
POUNAM
PAOPAM
PEBAM
PECHIMAYUM
PHAIREMBAM [khuman]
PHAJOUBAM
PHAMDOM
PHELEM
PHICHAM
PHIJAM [khabanganba]
PHIJAPHIBAM
PHILEM
PHOURUNGBAM
PUTHEM [moirang]
PUNAM
SAANGAISEN
SAGOLHANJABAM
SAGOLSEM
SAIKHOM
SAIREM [angom]
SANABAM
SANGAISENBAM
SANAGAISEM
SANGLENBAM
SANROKPAM
SANGLEM
SANGLELMAYUM
SANGTHOKPAM
SANOUJAM
SANSABAM
SANSAM
SANASAM
SANWAIBAM
SAPAM [khuman]
SARUNGBAM [moirang]
SAWOKPAM
SENJAM
SERAM [angom]
SHAMSHINBAM
SINAM [khuman]
SINGAM
SINGGHAM
SINGKHAMBAM [moirang]
SINGKHAM
SINGKHARAM
SINGKHUBAM
SORAM [khuman]
SORENSANGBAM
SOIRAM
SOUGRAKPAM
SUKHAM
SUIREM
TAIBUNGJHAM
TAICHAM
TAKHELLAMBAM
TANGEEJAM
TAYENJAM
TAYUJHAM
TENSHUBAM
THANGANGSHABAM [khuman]
THANGASHABAM
THINGNAM
THINGYAM
THONGABAM
THONGKAPAM [salangleisangthem]
THONGRAM
THONGRATABAM
THOUDAM
TOIBISAM
TONAMBAM
TONBAM
YAISKULAKPAM
YANGOUYEIBAM
YANGJHRAKPAM
YELWAM
YENKOKPAM
YENSENBAM
YENPOKPAM
YELEM
YUMKHAIBAM [angom] [moirang]
YUMNAM
YUMNAMKOMSAM
URIKHINBAM
URIKKHINBAM [luwang]
URIPAM
WAIKHOM [luwang]
WAIROM
WANGKHARAKPAM
WANGKHEILOURUNGBAM
WANGKHEIMAYUM
WANGKHEIPHAMDOKPAM
WANGKHEIRAKPAM
WARELLAMBAM
WAREPPAM [khuman]
WAREMBAM
WAREPPAM
YANGAMBAM [luwang] [salangleisangthem]
YANGNUYENBAM
YANGOUBAM
YENGKHOM




2. LUWANG YEK SALAI-SAGEI:


ABUJAM
ACHOIBAM
ACHOIBAM [angom]
ANGAMBAM
ARAMBAM
AREKPAM
ARUBAM
ASANGBAM [moirang]
ASANGWANGBAM
ATHOKCHAM
AYEKPAM [mangang] [khabanganba] [leisangthem]
CHINGJABAM
CHINGGAIBAM
CHONGTHAM [khabanganba] [leisangthem]
HAORONGBAM [moirang]
HAIKHAM
HEIKHAM
HEIKAM
HIJAM
HINAOSABAM
HINGKHANGBAM
HUIRONGBAM SALAM
ICHOM
KAMBONGMAYUM
KHOIBAM [angom]
KHOKNAM
KHUGAM
KHUJAMMAYUM
KHUMUKCHAM [khuman] [khabanganba]
KOIJAM
KONGPACHAM
LAIKANGBAM
LAIKHONGLEMBAM
LAIRENJAM [moirang]
LAIRONGJAM
LAISOM
LAKPAMSABAM
LEIRONGJAM
LORENGBAM
LOUKHAMBAM
LOUPAM
LUSANGBAM
LUWANGSANGBAM
MAYENGBAM
MAISNAM/MEISNAM
METRAM
NGOUBAM
NAHAKPAM
NAMBAM
NANBAM
NAOROIBAM
NAOROIJAM
NINGCHITPAM
NINGACHIKPAM
NGANGBAM
NGANGLOM
NGANGOM
NONGPOKPAM
NONGTHOMBAM
PHAMIHANBAM
PHAMPIBAM
PHEIROIJAM
PUNGKRAIJAM
SAKOKPAM
SALAM 
SAMBAKRAM
SAMBANGSAM

SELAM
SENJAM
SHITHANGKHAM [moirang]
SORAM
SOURAM
TAKHELMAYUM
THAMANGCHAM
THAMANGBAM
THANANGCHAM
THANGJAM [khuman] [angom] [moirang] [leisangthem]
THANGJAMSORAM
THANGJAMKHUMUKCHAM
THAOROIJAM
THAOTEIBAM
THIRAM
THOUNAOJAM
TINBIJAM
TOIBIJAM
TOIJHAM
TOUMOM
TOUREM [khuman]
URIKKHINBAM
UREPKHINBAM
USHAM
WAHENGBAM
WAIKHOM
WAKONTHEM
WANGLENBAM [moirang]
WANGLELBAM [angom]
WANGLEMPAM
YANGAMBAM
YANGKAMPAM
YANGKOPAM
YELANGBAM [khabanganba] [leisangthem]
YENDREMBAM
YOIRELKBAM
YUMLEMBAM



3. KHUMAN YEK SALAI-SAGEI:

AHONGSANGBAM
AFRAM
AHAIBAM
AHABAM [khabanganba]
AHEIBAM [mangang] [moirang] [leisangthem]
AHONGBAM
AKANGJAM
AKARAM [moirang]
AKHAM
AKHOM [leisangthem]
AKHUWAM
AKUWAM
AMAKCHAM
AMOM [moirang] [leisangthem]
ANGUDAM
ASEIBAHANBAM
ASEM [moirang]
ATOM [mangang]
AYAM
CHABUNGBAM
CHANDAM
CHANGGAMMAYUM
CHIKHOM
CHINGKHUBAM
CHINGKHAM
CHONGKHAM [leisangthem]
CHONGMOM [moirang]
CHUNGKHAM
HANGLEM [moirang]
HAOBAM
HAOBIJAM [khabanganba]
HAOIBAM [moirang]
HAORONGBAM
HAORUNGBAM
HATRONGBAM
HAWAIBAM
HEIKRUJAM
HEIRAM [angom]
HENTAKPAM
HOWAIBAM
INABAM
INGLAIBAM
INGLEM
INGUIDAM
INGUDAM
INSENBAM
INTONBAM
JHANABAM
KABAOBAM
KABORUNGBAM
KABRAMBAM [moirang] [khabanganba]
KABREBAMBAM
KADAM
KANAM
KANGJAM
KANJEM
KARAM
KOLOM
KHUDEIBAM
KHUNTHAIBAM
KHUYOKANTHEM [angom]
KIRAM [angom]
KHOIRANGBAM [angom]
KHOIROM [mangang] [leisangthem]
KHONGBANTABAM
KHONGKHUMAKCHAM
KHOIRISUNGBAM
KHUBAM
KHULEM
KHUMANTHEM
KHUTHEIBAM
LAIKHRAM
LAIKHURAM
LAIPUKHRAM
LAISHRAM
LAKHOM
LAMABAM
LAMTOM
LAMBAM
LANGDEM
LANGHEIBAM
LANGGAM
LANGKHAM
LANGKHOMGBAM
LANGLENHANNABAM
LANPHAM
LEISANGTHEM [luwang]
LIKMAIJAM
LIMABAM
LOIJAYANGBAM
MAIBAM
MAIPHAAM
MAIPHAM
MAIKHURAM
MAIMAM
MAIMOM
MAINOM
MAIPHURAM
MAIRENGBAM
MEINAM
MEIPHARAM
MEIPHUBAM
MEITANGKEISANGBAM
MEPRAM
MOIJAM
MONGBIJAM
MONGJAM
MONGPHIJAM
MOIRENGBAM
MOIRENGJAM
MOIYANGLANGBAM
MUKHOM [angom]
NABAM
NAMRAM
NANBAM [luwang]
NANSENBAM
NEPRAM
NGAIKHEBAM
NGANGBAM
NGASEPAM [angom] [moirang]
NGASEPAM
NINGTHOUKAPAM
OINAM [angom]
PALLAMBAM
PALPUBAM
PANKHAIBAM
PANGKHOIJAM
PHANCHAM
PANGKHEIJAM
PANGKHAIJAM
PANUJAM
PHAIRENJAM [moirang]
PHAIRELPAM
PHARENBAM [mangang]
PONGSANGBAM [angom]
PUKHRAMBAM [moirang]
PUKREM
PUKHRANBAM [moirang]
SAGAPPAM
SAKAPPAM
SAKOPAM
SAKPAM [luwang]
SAMOM [leisangthem]
SAMUKCHAM
SANDHAM/SHANDHAM
SANDONGJAM [angom]
SANJENBAM [khabanganba]
SANKHAM
SANKHOM
SAPAM [mangang]
SINAM
SOGAISAM
SORAM [mangang]
SOURAM
TAIBAJAM
TAIPOJAM
TAOBAM
TAOJAM
TAOMOM
TAOPAM
TAOPOM
TAORAMBAM
TAOREM
TENBAM
TENKHAIBAM
TEREM [angom]
THANGJAM [luwang] [ angom] [moirang] [leisangthem]
THANGJAM
THAODEM
THONGTHAM [luwang]
THUMGANBAM [angom]
THANGATSABAHANGLEM
THIDUJAM

THIDOM
THINGBAIJAM
THINGUJAM
THOIDRINGBAM
THONGAM
THONGCHAM
THONGBAM
THONGANAM
THOUDAM
TILEM [ANGOM]
TOKPAM
TONJAM
TONKHRAM
TONGKHRAM
TOUKHOM
WAKOM
WANGGOM
WANGKHEM [angom]
WANGYELLAMBAM
YAIKHIBAM
YAITHINGBAM
YAMBEM
YANGLEIBAM
YANGLEM
YANGUYEIBAM
YENTAKPAM
YENTHAKPAM
YUKADUM
YUMKHAM
YURENJAM




4. ANGOM YEK SALAI-SAGEI:
ACHOIBAM
ACHUBAM
AKOIJAM
ANGOM
ANGOMJAMBAM
ANGONJAM
AKANBAM
APANGMAYUM
AYENGBAM
AYENBAM
CHAKPRAM
CHINGANGBAM
CHINGSHUBAM
HAHEIBAM
HAIBAM
HEIKRAMBAM
HEIKRENBAM
HEIWAM
HEIRAM [leisangthem]
HEROM
HIDAM
HIKHAMBAM
HITAM
HONGNEMSUMBAM
IKHOISANGBAM
IKUDAM
KAIKOM
KAIKOMBAM
KAMBAM
KANGTHEM
KHANGENBAM
KANGSHUBAM
KASNAM
KEIKOMBAM
KHACHENBAM
KHANACHAOBAM
KHARIBAM
KHEKRAM
KHOIMOMTABAM
KHOIPAM
KHOIRANGBAM [moirang]
KHUMGANBAM
KHUMONGMAYUM
KHUTYOKANTHEM [moirang]
KHUTYONTHEM
KHUYUMTHEM [moirang]
KIRAM [khuman] [moirang]
KIYAM
KONGBAM
LAIRENLAKPAM
LANGMAITHEM
LEITANTHEM
LONGJAM
LONGMAITHEM
LOURIYANBAM
MAMBAM
MANDINGBAM
MANGSATABAM
MANGSHIDAM
MONGSHATABAM
MOPHANGMAYUM
MOIRANGLAISANGBAM
MUKHOM
MUNGKHOM [moirang]
MUTKHOM
NAKPOKHANJABAM
NAPAKHANBAM
NARUNMBAM
NGALENBAM
NGANGLENGBAM
NGAMUKCHAM
NGARENGBAM
NGAYENBAM
NINGOMBAM
NINGTHOUBAM
NONGMAITHEM
ONGNAM
PHURITSABAM
POSAMBAMPUTONJAM
POTSANGBAM [khabanganba] [leisangthem]
PUNGTOJAM
SAIREM
SANGAM
SANGAMBAM
SANGOMBAM
SANGDONJAM
SANGDONJAM [moirang]
SAROM
SAROMKEIKAPAM
SENDANGMAYUM
SENJAM
SHAMBANDURAM
SHANGSATAM
TELEM
THUMGANBAM [leisangthem]
USHAM
WAHEIBAM
WAKOM
WANGKHEM [moirang] [khabanganba]
WANGOIBAM
WATHEM
YANGOIJAM [khabanganba]
YUMKHAIBAM




5. KHABA NGANBA YEK SALAI- SAGEI:
AHEIBAM
CHENGLEIJAM
HAOBIJAM
HEKNGAKPAM [luwang] [khuman]
HENTAKPAM
IWANGBAM
KHAIDEM
KHATHANGBAM
KHUDONGBAM
KHUMJAM
KHUMUKCHAM
KHUNDONGBAM
KHURAIJAM [leisangthem]
KHUWAIJAM
KHUMUJAM [luwang][khuman]
KHURAIJAM [luwang]
KONCHOPAM
KONHEIBAM
KONJENGBAM [luwang][angom][moirang] [leisangthem]
KONTHOUCHAM [luwang]
KONTHOUJAM [leisangthem]
LANGOLJAM [leisangthem]
LANGONJAM [luwang]
MAHOUBAM
MANTANGBAM
MELANGBAM
MERIMAYUM
NGAKPAM
NONGCHENBAM
PHIDAM
SAMJETSABAM
SANGAMBAM
SANJIBAM
SANJIRAM
TEKCHAM
THINBAM
THINGBAM
THONGAM
THOURIKHUM
WAKEMSANGBAM
WANGBAJAM
WANGKONCHAM
YENGLANGBAM [luwang][angom][leisangthem]




6. MOIRANG YEK SALAI-SAGEI:
ACHOM
AHAIBAM
AKARAM [khuman]
AKHWAIBAM
AKHUIBAM
AIEKHOM
AKURAM
CHAKPAKIYAM
CHAKPATABAM
ELANGBAM
HITAM
IURENBAM
KABAJAM
KABORAMBAM
KHAITHENLAKPAM
KHOIBAM
KHOINAIJAM
KHOIPUDRABAM
KHONDRAM
KHUIRAKPAM
KOILENCHAM
KOIRENJAM
KOKHAM
KONGKHAM
KONGKHUBAM
KUBABAM
KUMAM
LAICHUJAM
LAIKHURUM
LAIMOM
LAIMUJAM
LAIPHRAKPAM
LAIPUJAM
LAIRELMAYUM
LAITHANGBAM
LAMBAJAM
LAMBUJAM
LAMPUJAM
LEILALAKPAM
LEIMACHAM
LEIMAKHUJAM
LEIMAJAM
LEYUJAM
LISAM
LUDONJAM
MAIPHURAM
MAIRENBAM
MANGKHOM
MELEM
MOIBAMPUKHRAMBAM
MOIRANGKEITHELLAKPAM
MOIRANGMAYUM
MOIRANGNONGTHONGBAM
MOIRANGTHONGBAM
MOIRANGTHEM
MOIRANGYANGMOM
MOIRANGYUMKHAIBAM
MONKUM
MUNGYANGJAM
MURANGBAM
NAMBUJAM
NAMUJAM
NAYENGBAM
NINGTHOUKHONGBAM
NINGTHOUKHONGJAM
NGANGCHENGBAM
NGANGCHONGBAM
NGANGKHAM
NGANGNOM
NGASAM
NGANGTHEM
NGANGNEMBAM
NUNGLEPAM
OKRAM
PHAIKHOM
POLEM
PUKHULPAM
PUKRAMBAM
SANKHOM [khuman]
SENKHOM
SENSAM
SOIBAM
THANGAJAM
THANGJAMMANGKHOM
THOKCHOM
THONGAJAM
THONGJAM
TOUPOKCHAM
WAINABAM
WAIRAM
WAKALPAM
WAKAMBAM
WANGBIJAM [khabanganba]
WANGLEMBAM [angom]
WANGPIJAM
WAREMBA
WAREPPAM [mangang][khuman]
WAYELBAM
YAIKHOM





7. SALANG LEISANGTHEM YEK SALAI-SAGEI:
AMOM
AMOMAHEIBAM
CHANAM
CHINGAKHAM
CHOLEIPAM
GOUGANBAM
HAIBAM [khuman]
HAIWAM
HAOROKCHAM
HEIBAM
HEIMOIBAM
HUIRAM [khuman]
HUIYAM
INGKUTAM
KEIDASOIBAM
KHAGOKBAM [angom]
KHAGOKPAM
KHOICHAM
KHOIROM [khuman]
KHOISNAM [angom]
KHUNDONGBAM
KHUNTONGBAM
KHURAIJAM
KHURAIJAM [khabanganba]
KHURAICHAM
KHORIYEMBAM
KONJENGBAM
KONTHOUJAM
LANGONJAM [khabanganba]
LEISANGTHEM [moirang]
LEITAM
LOKTONGBAM [angom]
LOUSHIGAM
MAIBATHIRAM
MAIBRABAM
MAIRAMBAM
MAIREMBAM
MEINAM
MOINAM
NGAKHEM
NGAMUKCHAM
NGATHEM
NAOSEKPAM [angom]
NAOSHRAM
POTSANGBAM
SAISEM
SAMOM
SAMNOIPAM
SAROKHAIBAM
SAROKKHAIBAM [angom]
SANGKHUBAM
SARANGTHEM [angom]
SOMBEM
SORAISAM [angom] [khabanganba]
TENGKHAMPAM
THANGJAM
TONGBRAM [angom]
TOUBANGBAM
TOURANGBAM [angom]
WAIRAKPAM [angom]
WAIROKPAM
YUMPUMBAM
YUMSHUDUM
YANGGOIJAM [moirang]




[With Input From Amardeep Pukhrambam][If any missing Sagei, please mail me at acmeitei@gmail.com]

Sunday, August 30, 2009

The onset and waning of love!

What is the use of that relationship which doesn't have a mutual respect in between... feel like loneliness being together! Most of the time, you are always hurt by the one you love most...you expect something, but didn't not get a glimpse of what you have expected. Apparently, you are always been loved by the one you don't love! Its not about being messed up alone!
At a maximum, most try to choose the one who loves them, but still their heart belongs to the one who hurt them. And very often they make comparisons...very sad, very very sad...hampering the growth of their relationship,...lost the beauty of love which was blossoming hideously! Got struck...!
Love is something which often brings smiles and happiness at your face without being tried. Gives you the courage to move ahead, ignoring the hard and tough, and make the things going. In short, love is the best medicine for any kind of pain and hardship. But when the relationship stops working, there will be no medicine to soothe the pain given by your love.
The beauty of a relationship and their future depends upon the mutual respect they have for each other. Ego is a main factor, so try to shed off...and if you think your ego has hurt your love, just tender your apology. Even if you are ready to apologies for doing nothing wrong, it doesn't mean that you are wrong and is subdued and your love is right...Feel the good moments...
You must realize the hidden fact that it only means you value the relationship much more than your ego. And if you think there is no future in it, give a call in your heart and quit it.

Friday, August 21, 2009

"Laadli Scheme" a must for every state

The 'Laadli Scheme' launched by Delhi Government in association with the State Bank of India (SBI) is one such good initiative that every state must follow for the future of "girl child" in the country.
Female foeticide is such a heinous crime which is still committing in some parts of the country. The initiative of the Delhi Government will surely help in curbing female foeticide on one side and will help in enhancing the social status of them on other side.

Though the accumulated amount of approximately Rs.1 lakh which the girl will get on attaining the age of 18 years and at least passing out 10th standard may be low, it will surely help in protecting them from discrimination and deprivation at certain level. Only giving them good education will help in bringing a balance society.

With the scheme in great success, now parents started believing in sending their children back to government schools. With "Sarva Shiksha Abhiyan", another step to fight our biggest challenge "illiteracy", its right time for the rest of the states and union territories to implement "Laadli Scheme" in their respective states.

We are still looking forward to the promise made by SSA to provide useful and relevant elementary education for all children in the 6 to 14 age group by 2010 in India.

Thursday, August 6, 2009

Bad taste

Time heals everything,... your foe may become your friend, your lost reputation may get regain, your debt may get clear, your lost love may come back to your life...just keep fighting, pace your step forward, the world is not going to end now.
Everybody is destined and has to face a worst time in their life, its a part of the journey, nobody can spare. Loosing heart, and admitting failure and stop moving ahead wont bring a good taste in life. Don't just let dare to go the way your life takes you.
A failure has many options to explain why they got failed..."they cheated me...I don't like...Have another offer...am exploited...am being used...no future..."
Why do you keep on blaming to others? Unnecessarily you are making a long list to blame. Castigate thousand times, but they won't stop moving; your imputation won't make their world end, instead it will strengthen their position.
Don't expect someone to justify on you on the same...don't ever wait. Because the mistake is in you, not the other. Before accusing others, justify your stand and credibility; and if you think you really have the potential then go ahead, you have unlimited limit; but don't blame on others for your failure. Prove that you deserve success then only the rest will believe in your claim[s].
Success doesn't come easily. After crossing thousands of hurdles and obstacles, you will get a little bit of success. Before you get success, you will come across many leg pullers, thousands will blame on you, the world might seem standing against you. Don't loose heart, keep fighting. Just take your life the way you wish to go, success will follow you...remember hard work always pays.

Tuesday, July 21, 2009

Finally, the recognition is coming

Congratulation M.C. Marykom on getting nominated for the Rajiv Gandhi Khel Ratna Award. You really deserve some outstanding recognition[s] for the achievements and contribution you have made to the Indian Boxing.
Though the country's highest sporting award comes late in acknowledging your talent, I hope you wont loose heart. You are now an icon for many Manipuri young boxers and also for the young boxers of the country. Your achievement of fourth world boxing championship is itself a milestone, coming generation will love to cherish it forever.
You have a long way to go. Hope you will bring more world boxing championship title back home and inspire our youths. All the Manipuris need you.
All the best to you, hope this time you get the Rajiv Gandhi Khel Ratna Award, just because you deserve it.

Thursday, July 16, 2009

Sleeping with the enemy!

I had never prepared to face the attack from someone very close to me,...even I didn't expect that someone very close will take advantage of me. Every now and then, this dirty thing is infiltrating into my mind. Now whenever I recollect our conversations, all sound different. Seems frustrated, didn't even want to respond to anybody properly...huh!
If you are ambitious, successful or wanna be successful, or want to maintain your reputation; be always prepared to face the sudden attack from your secret competitor/admirer. Remember that someone very close to you can only do much harm [unexpected lost] than your open secret enemy.
Here arise one question, how can I doubt those people who are here taking care of me all day and night? How can I doubt my own blood?
Well, to find out your assailant, you don't need to doubt each and every person you accompany. A friend becomes foe only after the intrusion of a third member. That may be of either sex. You must have that much sensitivity in your life if you want everything running smooth.

Saturday, July 4, 2009

Just hope, one more time

Patching up an already bizarre relationship needs honesty with determination. Forget about who you are, what are your achievements, what you have done,...just remember, your goal is to woo back your love. For a moment, shed off your EGO,...love just don't need your bank balance, credit cards, cars, properties or honours.

If you value the relationship, just don't hesitate to say sorry, even if the mistake was not from your side. The person is your love, don't feel inferior for the "sorry" you had offered; you can take back your apology if you were not wrong, only after the relationship is back to normal. Just remember the smile, petty petty things that you shared together in happier times...just forget the dirty words uttered while fighting, or the arrogant attitude shown in bad times.

Well, you have done a good job, got recognition and appreciation. You have a bright future now too. But life is not all about politics my dear. Just remember who help you in reaching up to this position!
Patch up, and chill out together in this deadly summer to a nice and cool place. Your simple one word 'SORRY' will pay you back thousands of cosy moments. Its late but not too late. Better late than never.

Tuesday, June 30, 2009

...that stream is stagnant now...

Its late, but still trying to figure out why am feeling restlessness! Tried to close my eyes in this big, cool and silent room. Something missing? right? Must be feeling uneasiness without a call or a talk...but I can neither confess nor admit at all. I am yet to recover from the big fat liar...

Someone has drawn a line, not to cross, or never to try.

I never used to be like this...ok now I admit. Loosing temper and shouting at every time...do I...really???
A relationship must bring out the best in between the two love, but in my case it seems that I just bring the worst in her. And I can't handle it anymore...So all I can say is that it will be better if we part our way here. This is the best solution I can give now. I must be crowding your space that's why every time you keep on shouting at me and I don't like people shouting at me...chapter closed!!!

From this closed chapter begins the not-yet-titled...

Time heals everything. Its been long that I haven't take a break from my work. Hectic schedules and hurried life; more cigarettes, less food; boring attire,...yaar, life should be rocking. What the hell is this?
Humming a love song, with great fantasy...late at this hour I am trying to catch some sleep, so that at least I can have a glimpse of you at my dream. I wish, I could welcome you with open arms...

Call me stupid, idiot...tolamu,
but the truth is I can't show you that much of my sensibility as you are expecting from me. And remember my dear, I hate speaking half-baked truth, so don't force me to answer the unanswered question[s].

Monday, June 15, 2009

Congratulation Suranjoy...a promising Boxer from Manipur

"...I don't think this gold is a big deal. People are making it look big because it has come after 15 years. I have bigger goals."
- Suranjoy Singh, Asian Championship, Gold Medal Winner, 2009.

I don't have detail information about you. I don't have any other source too to gather your bio data. But now you are the hero, our hero. Congratulation on your achievement, you have done a great job.
Asian Boxing Championship is a big event, but for the last 15 years, none of the participants make it big. So there were no hype of this championship around. From now onwards, people will watch it with great expectation. Your Gold Medal comes in right time. Others Manipuri, Thokchom Nanao Singh has also done a great job, but he missed the Gold Medal. Better luck next time.

Manipuris are good at sports, this has been proving continuously year after years by the players from this state; either in national level or at International Level. It is high time for the State and Central Government to stop ignoring these players. They are continuously bringing laurels for them, for us; and will also bring more such in the coming future.

We are looking forward to you Suranjoy...you must won more such gold medals...why not one in Olympic. Nanao, from you too,...keep going.

Tuesday, June 9, 2009

Price of honesty...

At first sight, you fall in love; you started talking through mobile phones; start exchanging thoughts through messages, mails; and now full introduction about yourself and yours new found love including family members and relatives. You took extra enthusiasm at the beginning of the relationship, may be you are attracted to the beauty, or to the intelligence or may be to the catching words or may be some other reasons.

Great, and congratulation on winning someone's heart. Its not easy to win someone's heart. You started giving hopes. The hope you have given is very powerful, the intensity of the relationship in building will totally depends on that hope. You must be happy now, not because someone is ready to die for you, but for really successful in establishing a new relationship up to that level. Again I must say you are great.

Now, its time to check out whether you are truly in love or not. After, coming to know about the family and relatives of your new found love, there is no point in changing your behaviour and attitude towards your love. So what if your love is not from a well to do family or their relatives are not in that league! Or why more attention if your love belongs to a well to do family!

If you are looking for a love which has a great backing from their family wealth and reputation than go for an arrange relationship. Please don't mind, evaluate yourself once...if you belong to this category, you are not in true love and do not deserve to be in love.

Important point which we have to count here is the honesty your love has. Instead of cheating, if your love has the guts to tell you the truth at the very beginning of your relationship, than its far better to be caught red handed with your lies later on. The beauty of a relationship lies in the way how you share your thoughts/feelings with each other. Rich or poor, fame or wealth...stand by your love. You can earn everything, but you can't buy a true and honest love. Know the price of honesty.

Sunday, May 31, 2009

Give respect, Take respect

You can't earn "respect" with the money and qualification you have, alone. You may belong to a so-called high society, or your family and relatives may be well known to the society. You may be speaking multiple languages, must be having multiple degrees. But if you don't know how to respect others, than all your knowledge and degree is of no use.
You must be happy to introduce someone who belongs to a higher class or from a well known family. In that same zeal you must be ready to welcome someone who has nothing other than himself/herself. You just need a little more hard work and luck to stride a gold in life rather than friendship with so call high society people. We are living under the same sun, its by luck that someone got fame and recognition with less hard work. So you should never underestimate someone.

Friday, May 29, 2009

The beauty of being with you


In the pleasant weather,
I really enjoyed the day. Deep inside the jungle we used to see many wild animals paying all around the bushes. We were very happy if a hidden animal comes out from the bushes in search of food. We can't speak to each other loudly, due to the instruction given by the forest guide. But I enjoyed the talked with her through sign and pinch. Both of us were busy, not only in searching the wild animals, but in communicating through signs and pinch.The trees standing must be having a nice time watching, being the only audiences of the play.




Varieties of deadly snakes were visible, and the most dangerous were the wild elephants, even the tame elephants ran away when they saw wild elephants coming there way.
She was terrified when some strange wild animals came out in her side; and I was thrilled, and was at my pleasure in pacifying her.


Sometimes, acting like naughty is much more pleasurable than being always nice and gentle to your love.


From 2004 to 2009, many changes took place, the only thing remain unchanged that had left with me is the sweet memory of our togetherness and the beauty of being with her. It is true that I won't get another chance to be with her to play naughty games in the thick forest among wild animals, but I will always nurture those sweet memories.

Thursday, May 28, 2009

A recent outing in Orchha

With hectic working schedule, I was really succumbed, and was always thinking of taking a break. All of a sudden I got an invitation which could serve for both the purposes. I graved the opportunity, and thus set out for the journey to Orchha, Madhya Pradesh.

It is learned that this fort has been converted into museum. Didn't get much time to visit inside the museum. The locality were not aware enough about the museum. The only thing they reported to me was that many Foreigners visited in the winter.


Just opposite to the fort, this Temple stood tall. The temperature was soaring at 43 degree something. Can't work bare foot, but no one was allowed to enter inside the Temple with footwear. Prasad were sold outside the Temple, bought and enter the Temple. Even in that temperature, many devotees were there praying and praising the god(s).


At the entrance, you will find these two pillars, stood opposite each other. One of my colleague narrated a story about these two pillars, but it sounds too magical, so I won't go in length about it here.

In and around, you won't find any restaurant which could serve you descent food other than dal and roti. So, I returned back to my hotel which was just a ten minute walking distance to the temple. If you are looking for a awesome lunch or dinner over here, just contact your hotel staff, though (most of the hotels there have the same problem)they don't cook, but they can bring you your choice of food from the outskirt restaurant.



In the evening, you can see many foreigners cycling in the long route of about 15 kilometers from Temple to the Bundhelkhand River side road. This route is very much suitable for such game or exercise that stretch straight with beautiful and leafy tress in and around the forest areas with being less taken route.

In the morning, one should not miss, which is just about ten minutes working distance from the Temple, the Betwa Riverside. Its stunning beauty will charmed you, and will compelled you stay for the next morning. At the evening time, the resort nearby has some lighting arrangement that also serves in beautifying the River.

When I returned back from my program, it was late. I reached Orchha at around 2AM. Wow, what a beauty of the River side in the moonlight. With every reflection, I decided to spend the whole night there at the Riverside. But the driver warned me of dire consequences from hooligans which sometimes forget there way to the area.


Two days and one night stay at Orchha has really emulated my long abandoned habit of traveling. The most important and significant thing about this place is that the area is far away from the noisy and clamorous city environment. I will always miss the evening fresh air of Orchha.

The nearest railway station is at Jhanshi, U.P. It took around thirty minutes from Orchha to Jhanshi by car. I boarded the evening Bhopal Shatabdi. In the train, I was sharing seat with two foreigner from Europe. They were heading Agra for Taj Mahal. When I narrated about the beauty of Orchha, they planned for their next stop to be at Orchha immediately.

Tuesday, May 19, 2009

Try to be always around your love when in need.

She was very happy, literally. All the office mates present in the party were praising her, complementing her new look in the new dress. Though returned a smile to all who were complementing her, she was not happy inside. She was missing something....., yes she was missing me, her only love.
That must around 11 am that she rang me up. As it was the pick hour of my office, I was a little bit arrogant in attending the call. In a very jolly mood she greeted me, but after my cruel answer, she, after a short silence said ...
"busy? ok carry on, I was just missing you, so I call you up, ok sorry for disturbing you at office hour. Bye"...



After she hang up the call, I returned back to my work. But something seemed wrong, and I was not able to concentrate on my work. Standing at the lobby of my office, lit a cigarette and call her up. Someone attended the call but she was not there. Her friend finally found her sitting quietly at the nearby garden. In between, her friend narrated the beauty of the spot where they were enjoying their office picnic, and how they were enjoying with their special ones.

Well, you must be busy most of the time in your office. Its obvious that you are working for money, at the end of the month, your pay cheque matters. But sometimes may you need to spare some of your valuable mortgaged time out to fulfill your love demand. Petty things are very much important in keeping the relationship going.

Thousands of complements may come in your way but until and unless your love one complement you, all the others seem valueless. If something excites you all of a sudden and you don't feel the need to inform your love immediately at that moment, BELIEVE me, you are not in true love. Telling thousand times a day "I LOVE YOU" doesn't mean you are proving your love, you need to be always around your love when in need. Try to be always around your love when in need yaar.

Thursday, May 14, 2009

Be in love, youth comes once...,

Love after marriage, and love before marriage - you have two choices in your love life. I prefer the second one. My first crush was with one of my classmate, that had happened when I was in just 3rd std. But I didn't have the courage to propose her and express my feeling. She was very talented, and always stood first or sometimes second in the final exam. And I was very happy to see her coming first in the final exam that I hated all those who tried to overthrew her ranking...There were no other way to pull her attention to me except scoring high marks. And thus I studied damn hard. I waited eagerly to complete our Board Exam, so that I could proposed her.



After my Board Exam, I thought that its time to express my feeling[s], and accordingly I tried very hard, but of no use. I couldn't even speak even a single word in front of her. Waited for another year to build up my courage, but when I really got shed off my timidity, and I was ready, she was already with someone. And that someone turned out to be one of my relative. Today she is happily married with that very someone, and has a beautiful daughter.

Being in love always makes you tender in heart, but not compatible in all your acts throughout the ages. Be a mommo's guy, no doubt. Be always a friend with your books, great. But don't let your youth goes without love. There is nothing wrong in falling in love when you are just a student. The love which you sow in your youth today will make you feel tender in your whole life.

After completion of your study, after getting a nice job, you can find out someone whom you can happily married and compromise your love life. An understanding hubby, a lovely child, your life is complete, as you may say now. But believe me, you are missing something which is very very beautiful than your now so called complete life.

If you have someone whom you love but not yet express your feeling, please don't delay anymore, go and express your feeling right now. Your proposal won't go waste, but make sure that you have the right choice...believe me someone somewhere is made for you. Grave the opportunity to be always with your right love.

Saturday, May 9, 2009

...and the story goes on and on...

You say something against him and he will say something against you. She will pull out a new version, and you will clarify it till you are fed up of all the stuff and start twisting with another tale. Come on dear, enough is enough, learn punctuation once again and practice better where to ink full stop. In old good times, you were occupied in praising someone, but when the same equations are no more, still you are occupied in pulling down the very person. Shame on you babe...

What is the use of involving the innocent parent only to get some mileage! You want the same importance, same respect, same dignity...but you don't want to work hard. Do only little work but make huge claim/sound...what a formula, huh!

Stop riding on your [dim] ego. Expect less 'self importance' from others, your love is suffocating, free it. Stop creating scenes. Or don't involve me in it. Why you are wasting your precious time in spreading rumour that too using someone's clean image? Be honest to yourself, leadership comes ...not earned on bad mouthing. TRULY, You are sick babe!

Admit that you are doing wrong. Learn from your failure, let it be your stepping stone to the success. Stop moving from pillar to post and blame someone for your failure, that won't earn you a descent favour. You are happy dominating your lover, with some borrowed lines to seduce. Just shut up your mouth. Don't come in front of me, or you will get a thunderous slap on your face...both side!

Beg pardon, don't be!!! hmmm....Sabah!!!....jaise or..... Adnam "ko lift karade"!!!

Wednesday, May 6, 2009

Ima keithel /Khwairamband Bazaar - New hope


A small city in a small state, but still due to lack of proper administration, everything got messed up. A flyover with old-odd model has come up after much delay, making traffic flow some relieve in this Ima Keithel vicinity. Good atleast.

Ima Keithel, carefully crafted by the industrious spirit of Manipuri women represents Manipuri womens' identity. More than seven thousand ima stalls earn their livelihood from this market which is said to have founded by Khagemba Maharaj of Manipur in the late 16th century.

Now three new keithels [market complex] are in the pipeline to inaugurate, Khwairamband, Lakshmi and New Markets; where a municipal fee of Rs. 1.70 lakh has to be paid for acquiring a 4x4ft stall. Good for all of us, specially our keithel ima[s]. It's here in the Ima Keithel that our men consecrated their devotion and life to the women of the state. Among the three complex, two of them has already completed, but still waiting for the last one to inaugurate together. Can't understand the logic behind for such a long delay in throwing the market complex to the public!

Wednesday, April 29, 2009

"Hasbian or Wasbian"

It was terribly hot outside, light was out,... I was lethargic enough and no one would dare enough to move out under the scorching sun. At that wee hour, She came with a bag full of ornaments....gold chains, pendents and rings and many more. Sat nearby me and cried loudly.

"Dada, please keep this bag with you, and don't let him know that this bag is with you!"


When she was 16, she enjoyed her best part of life. As it happened, helping one of her friend in meeting their lover dragged her life into trouble. As usual, she was helping them in their liaison on that day too. Those two love birds were supposed to elope on a particular day. On that ill-fated day, when the guy turn up with full preparation with three four friends along, her friend didn't turn up. As face saving, the guy eloped her instead after much fight and persuasion...this and that...

Though rich, she belongs to a lower social strata. The guy whom she eloped belongs to a higher class and was also very rich. After their marriage, the guy was sent for further studies outside, leaving her alone at home. Her in-laws tortured like anything, and didn't let her communicate with outside world. After much fight, she returned back to her parents place, and waited her husband for a pretty four years. But when her husband returned back, refused to owe her as his wife, doubting and blaming against her innocent character.

From that moment, she has been playing only one game "fake love-part time marriage". Now she is 28, and quite experience in flirting men of all kind. Her phone won't stop ringing until she switched off.

One thing I admire most is her sincerity to me. One Rakhsha Bandhan day, she came to my place and took my blessing.

"Dada you are the only one in my life now, who can look after and taken care of me when I am in need"

Many times, I had discussions with her, about life, future etc. She cried a lot, lamented but I can't remove the hatred for society and men from her mind...


Saturday, April 25, 2009

At the receiving end

Both are my friends, and its now very difficult to decide to whom I should favour. Both of them are regularly keeping in touch through think and thin, and are well exposed to all of my friend circles. Confused!!!

Well, the story goes like this, One of my dear friend was supposed to get tie the knot with his childhood love eight years back from now. Unfortunately, that relations falls out due to misunderstanding between the two families. And thus the marriage was canceled for forever. The two love were not in talking terms and thus separated till seven years. In between, this dear friend found a new love and was introduced to me. Being a good friend I become closer and the bonding has developed at a certain. Everything were going smoothly till the first departed love surfaced all of a sudden. Being first love my friend forgive and cleared the misunderstanding. Now the problem is who is going to sacrifice for whom?

In a relationship, the most important thing to maintain is mutual trust and understanding. If once the faith is lost in your love, it will be very difficult to get it back. Sometimes temptation leads to act unfaithful things, I agree, but don't let temptation overcome you. Be faithful to your love, admit it when found yourself at the receiving end.

Sunday, April 12, 2009

To the beggar with a difference

In Manipur, it is very rare to see beggar begging in the market or public places. Its been almost a decade away from now, but still I believe, you could hardly find a beggar in the city there. I still remember, my mother used to give clothing and foods away to people who came once in a year to our house asking alms. They were, in a way beggars, but 99% of them were from hilly areas where their houses were brunt down, and family members were either killed in the communal fighting or get untracheable. Circumstances compelled them to come down to the plain areas and took help to reconstruct their lives.
Here, beggars are like a part of a big and organised business. You can find in every nook and corner of the city. You can't stop your vehicle at any traffic point without disturbances from beggars. In the buses, small children follow a girl or a boy and sing some mixed songs and will force you to give them money. With their horribly dirty fingers, they will pull your shirts to draw your attention, if you protest they can behave like anything. They behave like as if they have someone to protect them.
But this beggar has a very descent behaviour. Whenever I saw him, my hand automatically pulls out a note from my wallet. He must be in his mid sixty. He never forgets to greet before begging and never forgets to acknowledge after taking begs. I have a very bad habit of giving begs only to old women of above sixties. I can't bear the senior citizen coming out to the streets and begging for foods. But except this beggar, I had never given money to men beggars, because I urged myself that they can work and earn a living instead of begging.
This evening, I was returning from attending a "Light and Sound Programme". Since very late and feel very hungry, I asked the auto driver to speed up. When I reached the traffic point of the flyover nearby my place, I asked the auto to halt for some time. I looked around but to my surprise I could not see any beggar around as usual. After crossing the traffic, I asked the driver to stop at a cigarette shop nearby, light up a stick of my brand and inquire about the absence of beggars there. The shop owner said, looking left and right by pulling out his neck outside for a while "Sab, sabko le gaya"...Kisne...."Police ne, commission ka chakker lagta hain..."

Friday, April 3, 2009

Why I am happy today???

Finally, a light at the end of the tunnel! After suffering such a long humiliating and discredit years in struggle, am facing the dawn for the first time. This fine night, am very happy. Why I am happy today...hmmm may be am content with the way my life is shaping up...or is it because of the call I had receive from someone special in the evening with some hidden agenda in the making?...or because of the constant thinking about her...whatever, the bottom line is now I am very happy. I can't go to US of A to write a travelogue; not because I don't have the guts. Or I can't emcee to some talk show(s) to earn popularity. My priority as of now is to finish up the book(s) currently in the making for some time now. I want to publish these two books respectively on September 26 and October 21 this year. Sometimes, we unknowingly commit mistakes that has effect for the whole life. And sometimes, we knowingly commit mistakes that has also effect through out life. Here I would like to urge the judgment proclaimed which reward same punishment for both the mistakes committed. Because of the wrong judgment, an innocent, each of the respective mistake is suffering, at each end. Lets meet someday, and discuss about this confuse thing. Hmmmm... A cup of tea with thick tea leaves does some real magic at this wee hour. Time and tide waits for none, time has gone. Forget all these bulls...t, Lets celebrate today...cuz, am very happy to see myself without a tear in my eyes finally.

Tuesday, March 31, 2009

sometimes late at night...

I have a very bad habit. That I can't close my eyes before reading something. And very recently I have shifted this habit of reading books/letters/diaries to reading SMSes. I have some preserve SMSes from my past. Among them here I am quoting one "Ok, if you say so. Like every other time, I will also give you a chance this time. By the way give me your dateline..."
By this line you can easily guess what my nature must be in those days. I always promised her, that I won't do this and that. And I was strictly obeying the self made rules. After two or three days, I will return to my normal behaviour, and the same story repeats again...She won't speak to me for many hours/days... She wont prod me for anything until I make her another dangerous promise...I know this time too I won't keep it. You won't believe, I promise, I always tried to make her happy by doing everything...She too always do everything to make me happy...but who can fight with destiny!!!
Today, I am remembering you, missing you desperately. You must be sleeping, cocooned under warm love of your family. Late at this hour, I can't even find any star in the sky which could occupied my time in counting them and helping me in forgetting you and your memory. Oh my dear, wish you a better life, full of happiness... Today I promise you that I am a changed man, come and see me, ... but I know you won't...One thing very bad about you is you are very stubborn.

Wednesday, March 18, 2009

Thank you for caring me my dear friend.

"...My phone is not working, my pocket is empty. What the hell is happening? Late in the evening when I returned back, found my computer not working. Someone whom I trusted most had removed and taken away the Hard Disk and RAM without my knowledge. I can't blame him for his misconduct, because I know at whose insistence he was doing. Circumstances compelled every body to act like not like. I understand. My boss ring me up, and apprise me, some of my close associates whom doesn't like to disclose their names, visited him and talked rubbish about me. My boss said, don't worry, I don't believe them. Huhhh...I can't find a single stick of cigarette, even bottles are empty. Though I had promise not to drink to my love, at this moment I can go wild for a single drop. If you were around my dear, less will be the burden, mental havoc!!! Where are you?..."

Time is over, I can't sit at a corner, sulking... Without crossing the worst situations, no one can touch the best corners of life...Now, I am happy with old and new friends around, sharing everything, forgetting about the past... Vodka with limca, rum, whisky... choice is mine, with glasses full. Now I realise, good friend is someone who can take their own decision themself, and very importantly not depending upon their near and dear on taking decision what to do and what not to do for their friends. Thank you my dear friend for caring me. I wish, I can share all these happinese with my love!!!

Thursday, March 5, 2009

The power of love

After almost three years of no-where-about, suddenly come into contact with her. She has undergone many changes, like, now knows how to make her face beauty, wooing others with single liners, maturity in decision making...list is a little bit long my dear. One thing which I observe, that seems remain stagnant, is her temper... Her Temper!!! Oh My God!

Somehow I came to know about her break-up with her long time lover, (source...she as well as her colleagues). Feel good, that guy wasn't the right one for her.

I strongly opine, why should we bind ourself to a so called "love relationship" when the relationship wasn't meant for? Why should we do stupid things and compromise when the relationship is not working?

If you are not happy with the present relationship, go to the root and find out. I will be very happy spending a moment happily with my love than spending twenty years with someone whom I don't love or am forced to act like being in love. Forget about rich or poor, popular or ill-famed, educated or layman...when you once fall in love, your life will be always on cloud number 9.

The picture of life starts when you meet your love. Quite often, the past doesn't matter in between true love... Let me conclude, now she seems very happy, laughing when alone, and eagerly waiting for the next moment, expecting sweet messages from the murmuring air...

I must admit, I am happy, very very happy, to see you happy.

Miss you dear

"My final decision is that I have always love you, I love you and will always love you"...

This line drive me crazy, but whats really written in our fate can't be changed, as normally says by one and all. I still remember that day, when she wasn't around me for the first time. I felt like crying, but there were a lot of friends around, so I tried to control myself, but I wasn't able to put on hold of my tears. They started pouring like water flowing down with strong forces in a waterfall. I suddenly left that place and run as must fast as possible in a park or say in an open meadow nearby, round after round. Tears were replaced by sweat. That moisture coming out through the pores of my skin got mixed up with the tears. And finally, thanks God, there were a brief rain for a while, and I was successful in hiding my tears.

Oh my love, oh my dear, today in the evening, there is again come the rain, remembering you, standing at the balcony, with arms raising out, collected some drops in my hand which was once busy in holding your hand, and sprinkle at the face.

Oh dear oh my love, I wish you were again in front of me...When you were around me, I never valued your love, but when you are not here, I realise the value of your love.

Saturday, February 28, 2009

Dr. Kishan and Manipuri Literature

The post independence Manipuri writers are somewhat disillusioned. The acceptance and the rejection of the new faith, new governance, the confusion of the people coming to terms with the changing situation, the search for the identity became the mirror image of the present day Manipuri literature. These writers are more politically conscious. They began to realize the predicament they are trapped in. The earlier excitement turned into anger and sorrow and the romanticism turned into absurdity and meaninglessness. Their main themes are defeatism, cynicism, and despair. They are aware of the corruption in the society, the unstable life style and are vulnerable and insecure. The present day life of the common man is caught in the everyday existential crisis. The literature churning out of this period depicts this social reality of violence and death and the ever-present problems of poverty and unemployment. Though very very limited, Sir Dr. Kishan's writings clearly represent the present day situations and somewhere excels from the contemporary writers in terms of long term perspectives, and the way of analyzing the situations, and always gives a way to get solution to the persisting problem, marked by a distinct note in the theme and style and the way of presentation. It is very unfortunate for the Manipuri Literature; its treasure will have a big hole now. We have lost not only a good human being but a great writer/author of future Manipuri Literature. There must be some unpublished matter of his writings at his home. Those writings will further strengthen his great vision in Manipuri literature.

Monday, February 23, 2009

Hats off to AR Rehman

Without musics, I cannot imagine my life. Though I am the worst singer (if you ask me to rate myself) on the earth, I cannot spend a single day without crooning a tune whichever comes out momentarily at my lips. Some of my favourites are no longer around, and it becomes difficult for me to single out from the new comers, to label as my favourite. Here, Rehman scores highest when singling out. Laxmikant Pyarelal has given some of the most melodious and unforgettable Hindi film songs. R.D. Burman had composed many wonderful tunes with a fusion of Western taste. Who can forget the songs composed by Khayyam? But they never got a chance to showcase their talents in the Academy history. In the 74 year old Oscar history, A.R. Rehman has finally made history. Bhanu Athaiya may be the first Indian, and some more Indians in the list as of now, but the real triumph is the one Rehman got. I became his fan when he composed the song "Nahin Samne ye alag baath hain..." for Subhash Ghai's Taal. Not all his works are genius, but once teamed up with a good Lyricist and Film Director, he can do wonders. But here in Slumdog M..., Gulzar's lyrics and Rehman's music are not at their best. So we can expect more and more Oscars and other international trophies for Rahman. Rehman Jai ho...

Saturday, February 14, 2009

Ethics of life

He is qualified in a sense. He knows his responsibilities, either for his family or his works. One thing he is lacking is he doesn't know how to deal with insensibility. In short he is diplomatically flop. Here I am writing about someone who is close to me. As a friend, I admire him for his sincerity, his honesty, his faithfulness etc etc... Sometimes I wonder... What is the use of running after pillar to post to gain some attention from the one who is avoiding you in every step??? I can't understand the logic behind why people love playing games with love!!! He cried like a child when she throws tantrum to their affairs. He dares to admit when he did something which might probably hurt her in distant future, or confesses even before doing something which is in the list of her dos and donts... Great, I wish, you continue... Finally, he reaps his sincerity with infidelity, inferiority... the list is so long, if you ask me to complete here, sorry dear, not today!!!

Wednesday, February 11, 2009

Is it good to confess all your past to your new love?

A beginning must be fresh in all aspect...You can lie today and can even manage somehow for the day, but one day when the truth comes out, you will have a tough time in explaining. It takes time to build a comfortable level in a relationship. If once you reach that level, everything can be compromised except infidelity.

Well, everybody has their past, someone has good ending, some other has horrible. At a maximum, most of the endings were of tragedy. Family issues, infidelity, caste, jealousy, possessiveness...list is too long. But the winner is leaving behind all the past and moving ahead with a new life, because life should go on.

Here comes the question "is it good to confess all our past to our new love?" And the answer is definitely yes!!! See, now you are going to start a new relationship leaving behind your troublesome past, here if you still commit the same mistakes than very soon this new relationship will have a bad ending.

Solution is just simple, share all your past and confess if anything offendable had committed in the past...your love will understand you and at your surprise you will get more love in return. If your love turn away after your confession, don't think you have committed a mistake, just chill... that one is not the one which you are waiting for. Wait and watch, don't be hurry...there is nothing as such of late in beginning a good relationship in real term.

Saturday, February 7, 2009

Spice up or.....

Its obvious that in a relationship there comes ups and downs. It doesn't mean that we should spend sulking when the relationship doesn't work or got strained. It is not easy to forget first love, at the same time it is also very hard to bear when your first love start demanding too much from you.

If you really love someone, you must always be supportive in every endeavour. If you start demanding or inquiring too much on petty issues, its obvious that a new unwanted relationship will begin from that moment. Telling lie, even though not intended, will be the only means to satisfy the unnecessary demands from your love. If I say what is the use of holding that relationship for any longer when the beauty of the relationship turns the endowment for your telling lies than it will sound hoarse to you...

Friday, February 6, 2009

New life new beginning

Now I am recovering from a biggest trauma in my life. The pain undergone during this phase has taught me a great lesson. A miss call at midnight has changed my life forever. Sometimes I wondered what would happen to my life if I were in a party outdoor that night as I normally do! Fortunately, my land line phone has caller Id, and I was writing, trying to complete a story on that lucky mid night. The phone rang just once, but the bell suddenly diverted my attention. Angrily I looked at the phone call history and to my surprise the call was from the most unexpected...Leaving behind all the chaotic and unorganised life style, finally I am breathing in the most beautiful part of my life. The day which I have been waiting for the last many years is finally here with me. Life is very beautiful if you are able to enjoy every bit of your life...

Monday, February 2, 2009

Be practical yaaaar!!!

Last night I was returning home after having dinner at friends place. It was not that much late for returning home, but too late for visiting to someone's place. Just to enter my room, I got a call from one of my friend, inviting me for a discussion. Normally I never say no to friends for anything. In the meantime, my other phone was ringing, which normally do at that time. Ooops....What to do!!! How well side by Andrew Carnegie that people who are unable to motivate themselves must be content with mediocrity, no matter how impressive their other talents. He is frustrated, confining whole day at room, no job in hand. His only income is from the earning of his girlfriend. No doubt he is talented but wasted in criticizing his colleagues do and don't. He cant motivate himself, except happy and content when his girlfriend selfclaim so called "good and talented". Of course most of the women will say good if their lover is always around her. Its none of my business, I agree, but what is the use in digging somebody work hard and success??? "Be practical" was the only word in my mind to motivate him. Instead of leg pulling, why cant let others grow and appreciate them who are working hard!!!

Thursday, January 29, 2009

The threat ...........Terrorism???

Ram Gopal Verma and Amitabh made headline just after the Terrorist attacked in Mumbai last year. Different people with different profile has different views. But one thing in common is terrorism and their modus operandi has make our life miserable. As time passes, our memory cannot hold for long and we usually forget events. But we are not going to forget the incidents such as Mumbai terror attacks. The incident of 26/11 attack has left an imprint in our minds, shake us from within, and will remained forever. Terrorists adopted such method and succeeded in creating an impact which was exactly what they wanted. They easily get international coverage by making the plan unique by normally targeting the places where cream of the society, foreign nationals and the diplomats were staying or enjoying.

Monday, January 26, 2009

Love has no written rules

Being Casanova always pay a heavy prize in their later life. It may seems easy wooing someone with your look. But dear, it is very difficult to win someone's heart with your look. Love has no written formula or rules to follow. You may fall in love to anybody anytime, it doesn't matter how long you have been with him/her. It just need only ONE second to have eye to eye contact to fall in love. Earlier, letter has a great value, now a days mobile and sms has replaced it. Todays young cupid hardly spend one minute in expressing their love. Just type five-six lines and send it as sms. Many service providers are available, you can choose your choice which offers the cheapest call rate and use the mobile and express your feeling, simple!...this is the current funda of love. Do you believe that there is more value of love through letter than love in phone or to some extent love in sms?

Sunday, January 25, 2009

Illiteracy is our biggest challenge

It is very important to make all of our children to make them read written text, write or recognize numbers. Our biggest challenge ahead is illiteracy. Is "Sarva Shiksha Abhiyan" the right platform to fight the illiteracy problem of our country at the ground level??? Is the Pratham's report on the Annual Status of Education on rural India reliable??? The Sarva Shiksha Abhiyan is no doubt, another step to fight our biggest challenge, but it is not implementing properly. The SSA has promised us to provide useful and relevant elementary education for all children in the 6 to 14 age group by 2010 in India. The recent survey of Pratham covered only 564 districts, 16198 villages and 3.35 lakh households whereas the country has more than that, say approximately 500,000 villages. Department of School Education and Literacy launches "Sarva Shiksha Abhiyan" with great promise to universalize elementary education by community-ownership of the school system in India. As promised, it should be able to provide quality basic education all over the country under any circumstances. We are expecting from Sarva Shiksha Abhiyan programme that they will do their best in improving the capabilities to all children, through their provision of community-owned quality education in a mission mode. For a better tomorrow, we need not compromise today.

Friday, January 23, 2009

Don't do different things to prove your love..but do things differently

Having someone other than your family to love and taken care of you is something which is very nice and precious. Not all are lucky when discussion is on "being in love." Remember that you have only one life. Get the best out of it. There is nothing as such of meeting your love in your next life...so and so... This time if you once miss your love, you will miss forever. It is true, and I agree completely with Harison Ford that "Big changes in our lives are more or less a second chance". Every relationship has a good beginning, I must say. But all are not guaranteed that they will end as well that of beginning. I have seen many break up due to misunderstanding. But I have seen less, people getting back to their ex. Before axing, think twice, or analyze, if he or she is your Right!!! It is very difficult to find true love, if you get and able to realize, don't let him/her go. Its now your turn to make big changes in yourself. No need to climb Himalaya or as such to declare your true love. Love is something which can only be feel through caring, accepting and fulfilling petty petty demands, making changes in yourself, giving surprises with gifts, and most important to be always around. Make only those promises which are possible for you to keep, and if once promise, keep it. Don't praise which don't really meant, but praise which really meant, and make it a point to praise at the beginning of your meeting for the day. It will make a great difference.

Thursday, January 22, 2009

Keep going Somdev Devvarman keep going...

The spirit of North East people must keep going. Sport is the only field where NE States, specially Manipur excel from the rest of the Indian States. If provided with world class infrastructures and coaches, many sports persons of international standard will come up from this region. In fact, NE has contributed some of the country's best sports persons. But when it comes to award and recognition, many got disappointed. MC Mary Kom, even after grabbing her fourth World Women's Boxing Championship Gold in a row is still missing the country's best Sports Award. The sudden arrival of another sport star from NE, Somdev, has given another hope to many sports person in the making form this region. The whole region is watching you...keep going Somdev...

Tuesday, January 20, 2009

Great Expectations from Barack Obama

Welcome Barack Obama welcome. You are thoroughly a man of your time. We have seen many American blacks holding the highest post only in cinema. But you are making history on Tuesday as America's first black president not in reel but in real. The moment you take oath by placing your hand on a bible which was used by Abraham Lincoln in 1861 sets great expectations not only by your citizen but by the rest of the world. Lincoln , having complex relationship with Blacks, had a vision of America that was largely a White one. Will you be able to bring an end to the racial segregation policies, the ongoing wars and the recession??? It is not new to mention that whatever happening in U.S. of America has great impact to the rest of the world!!! Will you be able to create jobs for hundreds of thousands of people whose jobs die out because of the economic collapse just before you win the election??? Will you be able to bring back the spirit of unity among your country fellow??? You should pledge us to faithfully execute not only the office of president of the United States, but also safeguard, shield and defend the rest. You are going to fulfill what Martin Luther King Jr had once dreamt of. You can only do so much by taking responsibility.

Sunday, January 18, 2009

Its the LOVE that is most IMPORTANT...

For the last three four months, most of my friends are talking about fidelity and infidelity in a relationship. Many relationships are broken only because of infidelity. When judging of fidelity or infidelity comes, men seem to be better, as women's inferences are not all correct. When I broke up my ten years old relationship last year, I know how heartache it is. It was a very painful moment in my life that I never ever tried to bring back her in my life, fearing another break up. Life must go on, and I make myself believe in this principle. But when it comes about patching up of a broken relationship, I wont go against them....even though getting back your old flame is not that much easy.....if you feel and think about her always, and really mean some love left still, it is not bad in making another effort!!!
How many times, did you try and were not successful in bringing your ex love? Or still keep on thinking that your love will come back to your life with the course of life? NO! it wont happen like that if you don't give your sincere effort. If you really wanna bring your ex-lover back to your life, you need to give some extra effort. Try to analyze deeply, recollect the incidents, and find the reason behind your break up. Analyze the mistake(s).
Be sure, you are ready to forgive your ex or your ex does forgive you by letting past is past. Otherwise there is no point in going back. Both of you must learn from your mistakes. Remember, its the love that is most most important...be ready from now and make up your mind, there is no use of wasting your time if you really think you can bring you ex back in your life. Because everybody want to go back to those happy times in their life. If you are happy with your ex, go ahead!!!
A whole life of smooth sailing is not possible at all in a relationship. So dont feel confused for taking such a difficult challenges. Do all the possible things with action to prove that you are really changed and past mistakes wont repeat again...It is very important to remember those things which both of you enjoyed doing together. Do those things again in the presence of your ex, and let her feel what are missing out on by not being with you. You wont believe, these things will remain him/her how good when both of you used to be in your past relationship. The emotional intimacy during these times can strengthen your restrained relationship and be sure some surprising moments will emerge from such emotional bonding.
If the mistakes are from the man's side, they need to do a lot of petty things. A man can be taught to reach out and be sensitive to his lover's need, as most of the women had a preoccupied belief that their lovability is measured by the affection they used to receive from their boyfriend. Coming together with many difficulties can enable them in developing a strong bonding and will help them in becoming a relationship of depth and substance. You must develop such a strong sense of responsibility while trying to bring her back in your life that you can stand up to the fiercest storms, confidently proclaiming "I can do it for you".
Love is love, there is no boundary at all, but the most difficult stage is when the sweetest love turns out to be the bittiest love. These days when a woman feels dissatisfied in her relationship, she doesn't just suck it up and complain to her friends while shedding copious tears, like we used to find in cinema. The style is outdated now. Todays woman has changed with the times, and so has her definition of a successful relationship. If you don't act today tomorrow will be too late.