Ethics of life

He is qualified in a sense. He knows his responsibilities, either for his family or his works. One thing he is lacking is he doesn't know how to deal with insensibility. In short he is diplomatically flop. Here I am writing about someone who is close to me. As a friend, I admire him for his sincerity, his honesty, his faithfulness etc etc... Sometimes I wonder... What is the use of running after pillar to post to gain some attention from the one who is avoiding you in every step??? I can't understand the logic behind why people love playing games with love!!! He cried like a child when she throws tantrum to their affairs. He dares to admit when he did something which might probably hurt her in distant future, or confesses even before doing something which is in the list of her dos and donts... Great, I wish, you continue... Finally, he reaps his sincerity with infidelity, inferiority... the list is so long, if you ask me to complete here, sorry dear, not today!!!

Is it good to confess all your past to your new love?

A beginning must be fresh in all aspect...You can lie today and can even manage somehow for the day, but one day when the truth comes out, you will have a tough time in explaining. It takes time to build a comfortable level in a relationship. If once you reach that level, everything can be compromised except infidelity.

Well, everybody has their past, someone has good ending, some other has horrible. At a maximum, most of the endings were of tragedy. Family issues, infidelity, caste, jealousy, possessiveness...list is too long. But the winner is leaving behind all the past and moving ahead with a new life, because life should go on.

Here comes the question "is it good to confess all our past to our new love?" And the answer is definitely yes!!! See, now you are going to start a new relationship leaving behind your troublesome past, here if you still commit the same mistakes than very soon this new relationship will have a bad ending.

Solution is just simple, share all your past and confess if anything offendable had committed in the past...your love will understand you and at your surprise you will get more love in return. If your love turn away after your confession, don't think you have committed a mistake, just chill... that one is not the one which you are waiting for. Wait and watch, don't be hurry...there is nothing as such of late in beginning a good relationship in real term.

Spice up or.....

Its obvious that in a relationship there comes ups and downs. It doesn't mean that we should spend sulking when the relationship doesn't work or got strained. It is not easy to forget first love, at the same time it is also very hard to bear when your first love start demanding too much from you.

If you really love someone, you must always be supportive in every endeavour. If you start demanding or inquiring too much on petty issues, its obvious that a new unwanted relationship will begin from that moment. Telling lie, even though not intended, will be the only means to satisfy the unnecessary demands from your love. If I say what is the use of holding that relationship for any longer when the beauty of the relationship turns the endowment for your telling lies than it will sound hoarse to you...

New life new beginning

Now I am recovering from a biggest trauma in my life. The pain undergone during this phase has taught me a great lesson. A miss call at midnight has changed my life forever. Sometimes I wondered what would happen to my life if I were in a party outdoor that night as I normally do! Fortunately, my land line phone has caller Id, and I was writing, trying to complete a story on that lucky mid night. The phone rang just once, but the bell suddenly diverted my attention. Angrily I looked at the phone call history and to my surprise the call was from the most unexpected...Leaving behind all the chaotic and unorganised life style, finally I am breathing in the most beautiful part of my life. The day which I have been waiting for the last many years is finally here with me. Life is very beautiful if you are able to enjoy every bit of your life...

Be practical yaaaar!!!

Last night I was returning home after having dinner at friends place. It was not that much late for returning home, but too late for visiting to someone's place. Just to enter my room, I got a call from one of my friend, inviting me for a discussion. Normally I never say no to friends for anything. In the meantime, my other phone was ringing, which normally do at that time. Ooops....What to do!!! How well side by Andrew Carnegie that people who are unable to motivate themselves must be content with mediocrity, no matter how impressive their other talents. He is frustrated, confining whole day at room, no job in hand. His only income is from the earning of his girlfriend. No doubt he is talented but wasted in criticizing his colleagues do and don't. He cant motivate himself, except happy and content when his girlfriend selfclaim so called "good and talented". Of course most of the women will say good if their lover is always around her. Its none of my business, I agree, but what is the use in digging somebody work hard and success??? "Be practical" was the only word in my mind to motivate him. Instead of leg pulling, why cant let others grow and appreciate them who are working hard!!!

The threat ...........Terrorism???

Ram Gopal Verma and Amitabh made headline just after the Terrorist attacked in Mumbai last year. Different people with different profile has different views. But one thing in common is terrorism and their modus operandi has make our life miserable. As time passes, our memory cannot hold for long and we usually forget events. But we are not going to forget the incidents such as Mumbai terror attacks. The incident of 26/11 attack has left an imprint in our minds, shake us from within, and will remained forever. Terrorists adopted such method and succeeded in creating an impact which was exactly what they wanted. They easily get international coverage by making the plan unique by normally targeting the places where cream of the society, foreign nationals and the diplomats were staying or enjoying.

Love has no written rules

Being Casanova always pay a heavy prize in their later life. It may seems easy wooing someone with your look. But dear, it is very difficult to win someone's heart with your look. Love has no written formula or rules to follow. You may fall in love to anybody anytime, it doesn't matter how long you have been with him/her. It just need only ONE second to have eye to eye contact to fall in love. Earlier, letter has a great value, now a days mobile and sms has replaced it. Todays young cupid hardly spend one minute in expressing their love. Just type five-six lines and send it as sms. Many service providers are available, you can choose your choice which offers the cheapest call rate and use the mobile and express your feeling, simple!...this is the current funda of love. Do you believe that there is more value of love through letter than love in phone or to some extent love in sms?

Illiteracy is our biggest challenge

It is very important to make all of our children to make them read written text, write or recognize numbers. Our biggest challenge ahead is illiteracy. Is "Sarva Shiksha Abhiyan" the right platform to fight the illiteracy problem of our country at the ground level??? Is the Pratham's report on the Annual Status of Education on rural India reliable??? The Sarva Shiksha Abhiyan is no doubt, another step to fight our biggest challenge, but it is not implementing properly. The SSA has promised us to provide useful and relevant elementary education for all children in the 6 to 14 age group by 2010 in India. The recent survey of Pratham covered only 564 districts, 16198 villages and 3.35 lakh households whereas the country has more than that, say approximately 500,000 villages. Department of School Education and Literacy launches "Sarva Shiksha Abhiyan" with great promise to universalize elementary education by community-ownership of the school system in India. As promised, it should be able to provide quality basic education all over the country under any circumstances. We are expecting from Sarva Shiksha Abhiyan programme that they will do their best in improving the capabilities to all children, through their provision of community-owned quality education in a mission mode. For a better tomorrow, we need not compromise today.

Don't do different things to prove your love..but do things differently

Having someone other than your family to love and taken care of you is something which is very nice and precious. Not all are lucky when discussion is on "being in love." Remember that you have only one life. Get the best out of it. There is nothing as such of meeting your love in your next life...so and so... This time if you once miss your love, you will miss forever. It is true, and I agree completely with Harison Ford that "Big changes in our lives are more or less a second chance". Every relationship has a good beginning, I must say. But all are not guaranteed that they will end as well that of beginning. I have seen many break up due to misunderstanding. But I have seen less, people getting back to their ex. Before axing, think twice, or analyze, if he or she is your Right!!! It is very difficult to find true love, if you get and able to realize, don't let him/her go. Its now your turn to make big changes in yourself. No need to climb Himalaya or as such to declare your true love. Love is something which can only be feel through caring, accepting and fulfilling petty petty demands, making changes in yourself, giving surprises with gifts, and most important to be always around. Make only those promises which are possible for you to keep, and if once promise, keep it. Don't praise which don't really meant, but praise which really meant, and make it a point to praise at the beginning of your meeting for the day. It will make a great difference.

Keep going Somdev Devvarman keep going...

The spirit of North East people must keep going. Sport is the only field where NE States, specially Manipur excel from the rest of the Indian States. If provided with world class infrastructures and coaches, many sports persons of international standard will come up from this region. In fact, NE has contributed some of the country's best sports persons. But when it comes to award and recognition, many got disappointed. MC Mary Kom, even after grabbing her fourth World Women's Boxing Championship Gold in a row is still missing the country's best Sports Award. The sudden arrival of another sport star from NE, Somdev, has given another hope to many sports person in the making form this region. The whole region is watching you...keep going Somdev...